27F, Married for 3 years. Arranged marriage.... we lived away from in laws for 2 years. There were some misunderstandings but life was good. But last year my FIL passed away and my MIL started living with us, now I feel all my privacy, peace is gone, even if we argue on something she is scolding me not to fight with his son, she's not staying alone so we couldn't even go for a 2 day trip... she's saying she's scared to be alone.... she doesn't help me with a single thing in the house but always complains about me to my husband... now my husband also sides with my MIL and is mentally emotionally torturing me.... I'm working woman, with 2 year kid. As I'm working from home they are expecting me to do all the household chores... my husband used to be very supportive, we'll split the chores and he'll always understood my emotions but now even after I cook and clean the house it's not enough for my MIL. She doesn't like his son doing laundry or loading dishwasher... now my husband also stopped everything and asking me to do it.. even if I say it's tough he never tries to understand my feelings or situation....they are saying you are working from home so you can take rest then what do all the work... atleast if I have peace fine but even after doing everything all I get is I'm not perfect I'm not responsible blah blah from my husband and MIL which makes me soooo low I feel very insecure and inferior I can't concentrate on my work or baby... my husband doesn't understand even if I ask for kid free date... he always thinks about his mom that she can't handle she need to sleep... I feel I need some lone time with him to atleast talk about how I feel but didn't get any luck. Top of all once while we were arguing at night she nocked our door and asked my husband to come and sleep in his room which he did. He left me crying which made me totally broken... I still love me husband but I don't know how to convey my emotions because every time I try he says I'm complaining about his mom or I'm overthinking I'm fighting for silly things... you did something wrong that's why my mom is upset.... please help me handle this mama boy!!