27F
This happened 8 months ago
Fell in love with a guy at work for 2 years, spoke to parents about marriage
my father said the guy to come home, same day my dads close friend was also there lets call him Uncle.
Uncle is 50+ and unmarried and always travels internationally most of the time. You see him at get togethers and everyone in the circle makes fun of him, I thought of him as a comedy piece.

On that day
Everyone was at the hall, myself,dad,mom, my ex & Uncle
Suddenly uncle asked for last 3 years bank statement & credit card statement from my ex, Uncle had it printed out after a couple of hours

He scanned through them like a robot & kept it down and asked this to my Ex

Every 10 days you visit a SPA and pay 3500, approximately after 60 mins you pay 4000 to 5000 to some random UPI accounts with girl names (multiple girls)
Explain this

My Ex was shocked, he was stumbling and could not even frame a sentence, I was blank and tears started flowing my eyes,

Uncle saw my dad and nodded No, My ex could not even say a single word
Uncle got his phone, deleted all pics of mine from his cloud, bin and messages from all social medias, he hit unsend for every insta messages, chat backups & even likes, comment
and hit format the phone.

He told my ex something i could not hear, I was so emotional, all i could see was ex was very very scared of him.

If you think you know know someone very well, Then you are wrong.