Hi, I’m in relationship with a guy from last three years. I once saw his phone and he had a lot of half naked women on his explore page. I fought with him and he told I saw all these before meeting you nu. Then I forgot the issue. Again last year I saw his friend (male) sending reels of women with seductive content and all. I fought with him and he said his friend is only sending and he doesn’t even open and see the reels (he had not reacted to any reels).

He said he will tell him to not send such things. Again few months back I saw similar content in his explore. He says he never watches those and he only watches comedy reels. I really didn’t have the strength to argue again. I thought he has to understand. Now yesterday I was watching reels in his phone and he every 3rd reel was such women. He is telling he never watches those and scrolls them if it comes. After the fight, he gave not interested to those videos. He spent 1 hour doing that means that much content kept coming. I don’t trust him now.

Even if he is going to be normal going forward I cannot accept that he watches such things. He blames me for thinking wrong about him. I am confused. Our marriage is fixed. What to do next? I am ashamed to tell about this to anyone especially family because I always used to talk highly of him