28F, Married 3 years back (completely arranged marriage), having 1 year old baby, Both are working... Life went well before getting married and 2 months after getting married.... Then the fight started when I came to know he was in touch with his ex-love, and there were more fights because of his parents and sister's influence in every matters between us... He lost his savings by investing in a link where they promised to provide amount every day if we invest in bulk.... He dint tell me when he invested, but he told me only when he needed money as he was in short of money.... From the day of marriage, I use to spend for me if I needed something and also give money for house spends ... But he spends for his parents and sister.... Whenever I planned a trip with him, his mother will say some reasons to avoid it.... Then I got conceived and went for delivery to my mom's place.... My inlaws are not open minded.... From my day 1 of wedding, they have not been friendly with me, not even had a good talk with them.... But my FIL has spoken to me twice only to tell me to bring my jwells and give to them.... From the day I went to mom's place for delivery, inlaws visited me and baby only once at hospital... I was traveling to inlaws place every weekends, as I have to resume work with is near from mom's place... In this gap,i could see drastic changes with my husband as he was not much interested and was fully inclined towards his family... Then we arranged a caretaker to take care of my baby and returned to my inlaws place...Once when we both were returning from office, we had argument and he stopped bike and slapped me in road in front of everyone... I returned back with him on that day... But when he bet me second time in road two days later, I went to my inlaws place, took my baby and went to mom's place and it's been 2 months I dint return to my inlaws place...

Even though my husband is very good to everyone, he is easily influenced by his parents in our natters... I font wish to live in joint family, i insisted to move alone, but he is not ready to move alone from his parents....

Now i am back to inlaws place, as my inlaws went to native after retirement ... Amd we are leaving our baby in daycare and going for work... I could see that my husband has changed completely not should much involvement in family ... I got suspicious and checked his phone when he was not there, and I could see some Mobile numbers and when i checked those DP's it was all hot girls and transgender pics and he also had snapchat account (which he never had previously) recommending girls profiles... I dint ask him anything regarding this as i am just back and started my life... But dont know how to handle... Please suggest me how to handle this ...