M30, Married a month ago to F26 through arrange marriage. We are in good terms till now. I never had relationship before my marriage. Before marriage we talked for 6 months and she told that she had a relationship for 5 years no physical. I was fine with that as she moved on from that relationship. Now after marriage out of curiosity I snooped into her chats and found out she had another 2 month relationship and she mentioned one junior guy as her brother but his contact was saved with a nickname same as my current nickname. Also she had told me bunch of lies regarding her 5 year relationship where it was known to many people than the people she told me. I thought of confronting her, but I don't want to sabotage our relationship. I was okay with the lies because even I have some secrets from my side.
Till 26 age I have never even flirted with the girl. Focused mostly on my career. I got ill and got some chronic medical conditions, nothing serious , but felt lot of depression. During that time I started visiting spa and eventually I become addicted to that. Even I lost my virginity there. After that through some therapists in spa got contacts for escorts as well. I never told this to any person about spa visits not even close friends. I have been physical with more than 10 girls and other stuffs also multiple times.
I have stopped doing these activities after i met her 8 months back.
I never revealed this to her. I was feeling guilty for hiding it But since she also hidden things now iam feeling okay. Guilt is reduced. I don't know what is right wrong. Should I confront her with her lies or just ignore and move on?