F23 I'm and introvert girl I usually don't comment or share about myself anywhere,,I recently created my fb account and this is my first confession I've ever did. So, my confession is for the young girls who thinks ohh my bf loves me so much he'll never me he'll surely marry me in future. Girls do you really think that the guy will really be your future ? That guy who smokes, drinks,drug addicted and has many girl besties? No right!!. Since from my childhood I was never interested in love, during my pre university days there was a guy who was my besties friend who always tried to convince me to love he did many things okay just like in the movies impressing, proposing and secretly asking his friends which colour outfit I've worn today and the same colour he would also wear. It was so funny at the same time he continued doing this till I finished my Pre university and then corona came , I don't know how he got my number and later we started chatting and I accepted him (from here all the disaster started in my life) our degree started we met each other kept our love in private but still somehow our clg and our friends came to know about love many didn't believed because it was me who accepted it was so surprising for everyone. I was so in love with him it was my first love but for him it's second he many times have told about his past, it always felt like something suspicious about him. And later I came to know that he was a womenizer, drug addicted, smokes and drinks everything we fought many times for this reason . And then he apologized and promised that he'll never do that again and took me to his home on his birthday he's whole family happily accepted and with his family I don't know what connection we had but I always felt like home they used to call me every week once and went to their monthly once like a family member we became. We even made photo shoot and his father made a big frame of us and kept it in the living hall ,,,ohhh it was like a dream for me at those days. Like this our love continued for 4 years on our 4th years of our love he started changing like avoiding and fighting everything ignoring avoiding he blocked me I tried calling him many he didn't receive told his parents but still things didn't work I tried to meet him directly and went home 1 day. I didn't even entered his house from the door he shouted not to enter his house. I started using my CID skills and caught him 1 day in insta story he with a girl and a lip kiss on his neck I was so devastated and cried not only just 1 girl with multiple girls he did, he always hide his phone and had unique pattern to lock.And 1 day I somehow i managed to open his phone it worked and as i went through his gallery i found many girls with him like a intimacy pics felt so much disgusting, all these years the guy whom i loved and everything for for me ...woah i cant forget that night how much i cried.He was not just a red flag he was a whole red sea, red carpet and i even found out that he had minimum 12 cases on him in the station . Cant believe how did i even loved a guy who is so much spoiled, do i have to blame him or his parents for his achievements.many things to say but i cant share it all in this 1 confession. At last I finally decided to break up with him and told to his parents I can't forget that day he's parents cried for my decision but just for their parents I can't live my life with a womenizer and don't know how he hacked my insta account.I always treated him like a baby and bought food and many expensive things I never asked him anything only thing I wanted was loyalty and love from him but he used me and wasted my 4 years within a week after hid birthday (13 Dec). After 2 years and half years of my depression I created my insta account and I checked my old account I saw him again with another girl hugging in his insta story ,how can they easily move on after destroying someone's life so badly I lost all my friends and my parents trust my degree I drop out because of him everything got wasted and here he's enjoying he's life . And 1 day I texted his current gf in insta to delete all photos he have uploaded in my old account cause he was not respon.ding to my msgs. She was so surprised to see those pics and reels of use and she didn't even know that he had past I told her everything and do you what she said I'll burn if you try to come back in his future again now his mine . I laughed so hard and told and told her , y would I pick a trash that I didn't wanted . I was in my my delulu you stole my problem not my man. And then don't know why they broke up and he started to take revenge on my doing everything I wanted and wished to do that with him with his other gf again....but still he can't reach my level. After all this I challenged myself and living happily pursuing my education in a best university in Karnataka. He's still in the same level since I left him the only thing he got is queue of gfs.....and I too got many proposals but I'm more focused on my career doing job in a best company along with that I'm completing my education too. Life is better now,healing ,accepting, focusing ,forgiving and building future. Sometimes it's better to choose career over love, teenage love are okay sometimes it may work some may not. And 1 more thing no matter what girls never loose your virginity for a guy ,even if he introduced you to his parents still he can cheat. My goodness I didn't do that but still there are some girls who are more foolish than me who does everything for that 1 chapri guy. Be a WOMEN not a girl focus on career first there will always be a right person for you when the right time comes.