Really Need Suggestions On How To Proceed Futhur- Married 5 yrs Ago , 3 yrs We were with In Laws,I stay at home - I was Not allowed to Go For Job when Married as my In Laws Side is didn't encourage and I was fine with that..Later Peak Corona Expenses Manage pana Mudiyala , en husband veetu side la neraya kadan irkunu engalku theriyaadhu.. en appa veedu wealthy dhan ivangalum apdi dhan nu sonanaga..business Panraanga ..Weddinh aagi 3 rd day en mamanar ena kuptu 1 cr mela kadan list sonanru..think abt my situation - Ivar kita ketadhku edhumae enaku theiryaadhu appa appa nu dhan solite irpaaru ,,chinnay paiyan nu solvaaru -ennoda husband corona time la ennala loan debt nu lam parka mudiyala elarum enaku call pani torcher panranaga..inga irundhan namala vaala Vida maatanga nu soli veliya polamnu kutit vandhutaar (because Ivar ivanga appa kita oru land irku adha sale panitu elarum nimmadhiya irkalamnu soli ketaar adhku avanga othukala. Ipdi dhan ma elarkitayum kadan vaagvenu solitaanga )Na small business veetlayae ennoda old salaried money vechi invest pani panitu irndhen..enkita epovum money kekala..na kuduthen apovum avanga Theva ilanu sonanga.. then Avanga appa side la en appa ku call pani veliya poganumnu solraangaa Neenah paathukonaga nu solitaanga.. en veetla engala vara soli 2yrs a paathuktaanga business vechi kuduthaanga veedu elam Katti kudthanga(but didnt involve in any of our personal even In Business )..indha 2 yrs la avabga Amma appa paaka polamnu solven pesunganu solved pesavaae ila enaku pfikalanu solvaaru ..apo apo na compel pani kutit poven. Porapo elam ivar kaasu keparu nanumkeka solven ,land a sale panitu elarum nimmadhiya irkalamla nu ..yaarum othukala..ipo thideernu oru naal veetuku poi paati oruthar irkaanga paathtu varenu solitu poitaaru ( enayum kutit ponga nu sonenn, ila thaiya prenu sonaru - only mistake I made that day was kovathukla thaaliya kalatitu kathiten -Iniku na vendamna epovumae na anga vara maatenu sonen ).anga poitu thirumbi varavae ila.. na avabga veetuku 3 times ponen .. 10 days mobile off aprm veetuku ponen family oda ponom.. inga vara ishtam ilanu solraaru.. Un Amma appa problem ila.. enaku anga vara pidikalnu solraaru.. Na 2 yrs nadichen nu solraru . Baby kaaga vandhen ( yes we don't have baby , Tried iui 2 times in this 2 yrs Failed , Avaruku problem nu sonanga - 2 yr la therijadhu avanga Amma appa ku theriyum apo financial problem irndhanala vendamnu na dhan sonen treatment ) ipo enaku earn pana pidikalanu solraru..avar bday vandhahdu apovum call panen edukala.. evlo dhadava dhan try panradhunu theriyaala ..ipo 90 days aagudhu ..Indha 2 yrs nanga earn panitu avaruku business la support panitu irndhen , anniku avanga veetla ponapo - nee ena ambalaya business pana varanu solraru ( avar dhan ennaku support ku yaarum ila va nu sonaru adhukaaga dhan ponen - ennoda small business la save pani vechi oru land vaangalmnu poi paathtu lam vandhom - enaku ena aachunae theriyala..epdi ipdi thideernu change aavanga ? Enaku mind free aganum kuprapo va nu sonaru evlo days ipdiye wait panradhu ? More than 90 days..
Personally we shared a very good bonding..elaame pesipom edhayum Maraika ma dhan irpom...anniku avar pesnadhu enaku pudhusa dhan irndhahdu.. ketadhku nadichen solraaru..
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