Dear boys or girls if you are not interested in marriage please tell your parents while seeing a boy or girl. don't tell them at the last minute after every thing is planned For my friend, marriage is planned, while seeing the girl she said I'm interested , didn't say anything about her love , if you are in a situation like you don't have the guts to tell your love in home / marriage forced by parents. While seeing the day itself if you got chance to tell the boy ( some how secretly ) that you are not interested, then they will automatically reject from their side In my friend case, the girl didn't say anything, so both families purchased everything like dresses, gold, car, food preparation items, even invited all relatives, during the last week she told I'm loving some other guy I'm not interested in marriage Please don't do this His Dream day got shattered, I can't see him & his family for that entire week, every one is very sad & everyone started crying by thinking this for a week. I don't know how to console my friend, he looks fine, I know deep inside he is crying and not speaking with any one Both are middle class families, both are working in IT, both families didn't demand any thing I'm thinking it will take so much of time to move on, a lot of time and money spent for that event Pleaseeeeeeeeeee don't do this send me some words to console him